Fighting to get in
D’var Torah Parshat Emor 5782
Ed Rapoport May 14,2022
There is a tragic story at the end of parshat Emor that gives a lot of specific details but seems to leave out some crucial ones.
Chapter 24 verse 10 reads: “And the son of an Israelite woman, who was the son of an Egyptian man, went out among the Children of Israel, and they fought in the camp – the son of the Israelite woman, and an Israelite man. And the son of the Israelite woman pronounced the Divine Name, and cursed, and they brought him to Moshe, and his mother’s name was Shlomit the daughter of Divri, from the tribe of Dan. And they placed him in a guarded place, to have clarified to them what to do, according to God.” God tells Moshe that the blasphemer should be stoned to death, and that is what happens.
Who was the Israelite man who fought with the son of the Egyptian, and what did they fight about? What got the son of the Egyptian so mad that he blasphemed?
British Rabbi Shimon Felix, former assistant to Rabbi Sachs, tries to elucidate this story. According to him, the son of the Israelite woman and Egyptian man, while Jewish, has no connection to any one of the twelve tribes of Israel; that connection is determined through the father, and his father was an Egyptian. So, when he “went out among the children of Israel”, he was trying to find a place, stake a claim, and join the tribe, and the camp, of his mother, “the tribe of Dan”. Someone, the unnamed “Israelite man”, tried to stop him, so they “fought in the camp”, i.e., about matters pertaining to the camp – should we let this son of an Egyptian, who has no tribal affiliation, in, or not? Things got out of hand; our claimant lost it, and cursed, blasphemed, in anger and frustration, which was his undoing.
We might feel badly for the poor blasphemer; this Jew denied a place among his people – the commentaries agree that, one way or another, nowhere to pitch his tent, he is a sad figure indeed, and we can perhaps understand his anger at being excluded. On the other hand, some of us might now better understand the “Israelite man” who fought with him; he was, correctly, trying to maintain the purity and integrity of the camp and tribe. One might argue that since the son of the Egyptian ultimately cursed God indicates that it was a good idea, indeed, to keep him out – look at what kind of person he turned out to be!
Could a place not have been found for this Jewish outsider somewhere in the camp of Dan, or elsewhere among the Israelites? He exhibits, after all, a real desire to be among the Jewish people, to be part of them. Why did this other fellow have to fight with him in an effort to keep him out of the tribal camp, and ultimately drive him to blaspheme? Is it forbidden to make room for someone like him in the camp? Did he have to be so cruelly excluded? Could an accommodation not have been made?
The Ohr HaChaim (Rabbi Chaim ibn Attar, 1696-1743, Morocco and Israel) makes an important contribution to this discussion. He asks why the “Israelite man” who fought with the blasphemer is unnamed. After all, if he did the right thing in defending the purity, integrity, and honor of the camp of Dan, and of Israel, shouldn’t he be given credit? The Ohr HaChaim therefore states that his actions were, in fact, negative, and God did not name him in the Torah. By keeping the son of the Egyptian out, and fighting with him, he was, ultimately, the cause for the blaspheming to take place.
Although the blasphemer should have controlled himself, the Ohr HaChaim feels that it was the Israelite who fought to keep him out of the camp of Dan who is to blame for this tragedy. Room should have been made for him; a place found for him, something should have been done, other than, as the Ohr HaChaim calls it, this shameful behavior of forcibly excluding him from the camp.
This “son of the Egyptian” was rightfully a Jew by birth. But he didn’t fit in the rigid model of Tribal Identification. He sought to claim his right through his Jewish Danite mother to a place in the community.
In our current life here at Darchei Noam there are people who don’t fit the model of our “Tribe”: those new to town, newly observant, single people, people who identify with Darchei Noam or with Modern Orthodox Judaism but whose spouse doesn’t. Do we do everything we can to welcome such people?
People in “Nice” Minneapolis, Minnesota can be awfully cliquish and exclude others even without thinking. Do we make a place for these others, include them in conversation, invite them to meals? In learning from the tragic story of exclusion at the end of our parasha let us try to be welcoming to all who come here and build a warmer, more cohesive community.